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Monday
KIM COHERTY
England, 42, married
I was born in Haringey and lived in the borough for the first 21 years of my life. It is a place that is full of amazing people. That is what I love most about Haringey: the people, their generosity and the talented young people
I work for ComeUnity and I do it because I want to see lives changed, people doing what they were created to do. Everything is possible for the one who believes
I would encourage future leaders to step out in faith, you just don't know what is inside you or what you are able to do until you step out in faith...and enjoy the journey!!!
PASTOR ALEX GYASI
I'm the pastor of the Highway Of Holiness Church and I love living in Haringey because it's very rich in cultures and points of view.
I started working with homeless last summer, when two men came to my church and asked for help. I provided them food, which was their most immediate need. After a week taking care of them, I decided to offer my church to sleep, as well. In time, I realised that they couldn't apply for jobs because of their appearance, so I decided to turn one of our toilets into a shower which they could use. It really improved their self-esteem and confidence and made us realise that small things can make such a big difference.
Now, the church has been open to homeless during the whole winter, we've had up to 40 people sleeping in our floor. It's really grateful to see how helping people improve their lives. Some of them got a job and once they earned enough money they rent a flat and leave. We help people to begin a new life providing activities, English lessons and meetings. This work has been the most challenging to date.
I started working with homeless last summer, when two men came to my church and asked for help. I provided them food, which was their most immediate need. After a week taking care of them, I decided to offer my church to sleep, as well. In time, I realised that they couldn't apply for jobs because of their appearance, so I decided to turn one of our toilets into a shower which they could use. It really improved their self-esteem and confidence and made us realise that small things can make such a big difference.
Now, the church has been open to homeless during the whole winter, we've had up to 40 people sleeping in our floor. It's really grateful to see how helping people improve their lives. Some of them got a job and once they earned enough money they rent a flat and leave. We help people to begin a new life providing activities, English lessons and meetings. This work has been the most challenging to date.
CLIMACO MEDINA
Colombia, married (2 children)
I volunteer in Casa de la Salud Hispano Americana, I am in charge of the various workshops we offer related to healthy eating and exercising. Besides helping people from Haringey, in this association we try to educate them too, so they grow comfortable with a healthy lifestyle. We try to prevent diabetes, high cholesterol… The daily problems nobody pays attention to, but which are at the same time cause of the main illness in England. My aim is to promote a healthy lifestyle among the Latin American community in Haringey. Though, at the same, time everybody is welcome to attend our workshops.
I have been living in Haringey for a long time now and I doubt I will leave this borough. There are still a lot of things to do and many lessons to learn from the people living here.
TERESA ECHEVERRI
Colombia, married (2 children)
I’m a doctor and I’ve been working in the voluntary sector for more than 10 years. I am the founder and manager of Casa de la Salud Hispano Americana. Haringey has big problems related with health inequalities and our organization is contributing to tackling inequalities in this issue. We provide health advice and information. We also help with the advancement of education in language and communication skills and with the provision of facilities for recreation and other leisure time occupation.
Working as a volunteer is very important because you can help many people who are in need. But the job that I do in Casa de la Salud Hispano Americana helps me too, because I can develop my skills as a professional. It is a process of everyday learning from each other.
Our country and especially locals need people like us to do the job because volunteers are in extinction. It does not matter where you are from or where you live, next to you there is someone who need you. Give a hand. I chose to help in Haringey, because I love it,
it is my second home, where I have my friends and connections.
LIVINGSTON GILCHRIST
Jamaica, married (2 daughters)
I work as a coach in MLB learning solutions. We provide workshops to unemployed people. We teach them how to face interviews, write CVs or even develop a business. We act as a link between them and employers, as well.
It’s very gratifying for me to see how people grow up in confidence and start smiling. Many people come here frustrated and, consequently, unable to solve their problems. Here they share their thoughts and worries and we help them by teaching them how to be self sufficient. They start thinking about what makes them happy and we try to make them feel capable of achieve their goals.
I do this as a vocation to help people to improve their lives. As a Christian, I’m very strong about loving other people, and improve the world as a our home. I believe passionately that what we do is making a difference.
Haringey is a very diverse borough with a strong feeling of community. You go through the market and you see people preparing their own country food or listening to their music, it is just wonderful. Here you can celebrate whatever culture you are from.
CHEMPABEN PATEL
India, married (2 children)
I’ve lived in Haringey since 1972 when I first came to this country. I love this borough because I know where to find everything and all the shopping areas are close from home.
I went to the Asian Carers Support group because I have a disability in my hip and I have to help to my blind husband to use the bathroom upstairs several times a day. When the Council denied me the help to build a bathroom downstairs, they helped me dealing with the Council again and again until I got the funding to build it. Now I feel safer at home because I don’t have to suffer each time my husband has to go to the bathroom.
I really appreciate the help of the ACS group volunteers because they have improved my life. That is why I collaborate with them to improve the lives of others (including those under my care).
MINA PATTEL
India
I came to Haringey in 1989 and now I’m the responsible of the Asian Carers Support Group. We help elderly Asian people who can’t express themselves in English to solve their problems and feel cared. These people are carers and thus can have tough moments and need support.
Many of them feel isolated because of the language, so we provide them a place to speak their own language with other people and also we offer them help to communicate in English. We give them a voice. And we are a meeting point for them, as well. They spend their leisure time here playing cards or just exchanging stories. We give them a reason not to stay at home all day long. People’s response, the satisfaction and the happiness they show is what keeps me going.
If you have a problem, as they do with the language, do something to find a solution, never give up.
Haringey is good for elderly people, they would do more for them here than in other boroughs. In a way is good, because you become one.
HADIYA H - SAID
Somalia-Tanzania, married (2 children)
I’m the founder of African Women Welfare Association. We provide help to different African women who come at first to this country and can’t speak English or even read or write. We try to encourage them to leave their homes and come out, so they can integrate to their new society. Our aim now is to work together with other women’s organisations.
The reason why I do this job is because I’m a woman. Where I come from women are not given any chances, they are not equal and they suffer. Since my childhood I was thinking that I should change this situation. Helping women is empowering the family. When you empower the family, you empower society, you empower everybody. And this makes me feel satisfied.
What I like most in Haringey is that you can find people from everywhere in the world, and this makes people in this borough more tolerant.
ELIA DUARTE
Colombia, single
I have been volunteering in La casa de la Salud Hispano Americana for 18 months now. I started a project called ‘Clinica para el adulto sano’ (supported by La Casa de la Salud). We give the Latin American community the chance to have a free health check up and tips to prevent illnesses. A chance to approach to the community and make people feel more cared. Lots of people come from Latin America and don’t speak English so we give them a meeting point here to learn how they can find out about their health. I love to see how people improve their lives with our help, and come after just to say ‘hello’.
I don’t live in Haringey, but I spend a lot of time volunteering here. What I like about it is the big mix of cultures you can find. The problem I see in this area is that they have a lot of health sources but don’t know how to manage with them.
MYRTLE KNUCKLE
Jamaica, widow (2 children, 4 grandchildren)
I was a psychiatric nurse and now I run the Golden Jubilee Project, which used to be residential home, but it is now a centre for people who are isolated to come together and make new friends whilst trying out exciting activities. It is all about people getting together and making friends. It’s nice to know that there is somewhere where lonely people can meet.
I live by what I taught my children. That is, live for something, have a purpose and keep that purpose always in view. Drifting like an helm-less vessel, thou canst never to self be true, half the wrecks that strew life's ocean if some star had been their guide would have now been safely anchored but they drifted with the tide.
I have been living in Haringey since 1973. Many people used to say that it was a miserable borough but I wanted to proof it by myself. I fitted quite well since I came. The members of my local Anglican Church here were very friendly, they accepted me with open hands, and that made me feel at home. There is special warmth in Haringey. I think you can make yourself very happy here.
ANDREA BEBIN
Cuba, married (2 children)
I came to London 7 years ago now, and since then I have been volunteering in Casa de la Salud Hispano Americana as a medical assistant. I graduated as a doctor in Cuba.
This association acts as a link between the patients and the GPs. We help people with their requirements related to health issues. People come to us because they need help with their English and because they feel more confident here, as they are able to explain themselves better. Or sometimes they just need somebody to listen to them. Quite often doctors don’t have enough time to pay as much attention as they wished to their patients.
For me this is an enriching job, not only because I help other people, but because I can develop my skills as a doctor, too. Besides I feel how grateful our patients are to us and feel that they are learning with the habits we try to teach them.
People in Haringey are really nice, they help you too with anything you may require.
RACHAEL SHANKAR
England, 39, married (4 children)
I’ m director of Choices Haringey, an association to help young pregnant women. I believe that many decisions are made without thinking deeply about them, so we try to provide a place for advice and information when somebody full of doubts comes in. Our volunteers give the girls a place where they can feel cared, where they can be calm and take their time to choose what is best for them.
We also would like to get involved in educational programs and schools, in order to show the girls what the options are. Everybody needs to be aware of the consequences to our actions.
Haringey is a fantastic area. I love the fact that you walk down the road and you can hear different languages from all over the world.
CLAUDIA QUINTERO
Colombia, 37 years old, married (2 children)
I came to England only four months ago and have been two months volunteering in Casa de la Salud Hispano Americana. We help Hispano American people who have just arrived to this country and speak little English. They usually need some advice with the organisation of their medical issues or just need to go to the doctor. I used to work as a secretary in my country so I help with administrative tasks once a week.
At the same time that I am helping other people, this job helps me too. Because it brings fresh air to my daily life, I meet new people and I develop my professional career, as well.
In this short period of time I feel that Haringey is a busy borough, lots of people walking down the streets and has a deep multicultural nature, which gives diversity to the area. In Haringey, for example, I can find Colombian shops that are nowhere else in London.
I came to England only four months ago and have been two months volunteering in Casa de la Salud Hispano Americana. We help Hispano American people who have just arrived to this country and speak little English. They usually need some advice with the organisation of their medical issues or just need to go to the doctor. I used to work as a secretary in my country so I help with administrative tasks once a week.
At the same time that I am helping other people, this job helps me too. Because it brings fresh air to my daily life, I meet new people and I develop my professional career, as well.
In this short period of time I feel that Haringey is a busy borough, lots of people walking down the streets and has a deep multicultural nature, which gives diversity to the area. In Haringey, for example, I can find Colombian shops that are nowhere else in London.
MARGARET THORLI
Sierra Leone, single.
I’m the founder of Hope & Restoration MLB, where we offer different kind of workshops to unemployed people: life coaching, business management and mentoring, which I am in charge of due to my professional background.
MLB started in Haringey because of the high rate of lone parents in this area. As I went through trying to be a mother and working at the same time, I wanted to help other people in the same situation. But now everybody is able to join in.
The reason that keeps me going in this job is that I am really passionate about what I do. To see that somebody comes in not knowing what to do or where to go and see stage by stage how they find out and learn it is just amazing! I see people’s life in transform.
What I am really passionate about is just to work with the people and transforming their lives, particularly in Haringey because there’s a high rate of unemployed people. And I cannot forget that the funding we receive is coming from this area too. So I am linked with Haringey for all my life. I hope so, at least.
I’m the founder of Hope & Restoration MLB, where we offer different kind of workshops to unemployed people: life coaching, business management and mentoring, which I am in charge of due to my professional background.
MLB started in Haringey because of the high rate of lone parents in this area. As I went through trying to be a mother and working at the same time, I wanted to help other people in the same situation. But now everybody is able to join in.
The reason that keeps me going in this job is that I am really passionate about what I do. To see that somebody comes in not knowing what to do or where to go and see stage by stage how they find out and learn it is just amazing! I see people’s life in transform.
What I am really passionate about is just to work with the people and transforming their lives, particularly in Haringey because there’s a high rate of unemployed people. And I cannot forget that the funding we receive is coming from this area too. So I am linked with Haringey for all my life. I hope so, at least.
ESAT BRACE
Albania, 41 years old, married (2 children)
I’m the director of Nene Tereza, Albanian Community in UK. We work with more than 300 Albanian children, aged between 7 and 15. We manage three supplementary schools where they learn mainly the Albanian language but Albanian culture too, as they don’t know much about it because they are born and raised in London.
I just do my job because I love it. I see the children we work with as though they were mine.
I set up the association in Haringey because here’s where you can find most Albanian people. I am very happy in this borough because you can find many different nationalities and I am happy, too, with its council. I would really love to work together with them. The Albanian community is relatively new and it can almost be “invisible” but we have our needs and also our energy to participate fully in this area.
My group is called Nene Tereza, as homage to Mother Teresa the best known and loved Albanian woman/heroine of recent years.
I’m the director of Nene Tereza, Albanian Community in UK. We work with more than 300 Albanian children, aged between 7 and 15. We manage three supplementary schools where they learn mainly the Albanian language but Albanian culture too, as they don’t know much about it because they are born and raised in London.
I just do my job because I love it. I see the children we work with as though they were mine.
I set up the association in Haringey because here’s where you can find most Albanian people. I am very happy in this borough because you can find many different nationalities and I am happy, too, with its council. I would really love to work together with them. The Albanian community is relatively new and it can almost be “invisible” but we have our needs and also our energy to participate fully in this area.
My group is called Nene Tereza, as homage to Mother Teresa the best known and loved Albanian woman/heroine of recent years.
Wednesday
Yemisi Onigbinde
I am 39 year old mother of 2 children. I am originally from Nigeria but spent most of my life in England. Haringey is a very diverse community. Many people have a good underling attitude and are involved in care and community work in the borough. For instance, I’ve seen people waking up early in the morning to meet and pray for the social transformation of the borough, Churches collaborating together to take care of the homeless and provide them shelter.
The council works really well with groups and I love the fact that people actually want to do something, rather than sit and complain about the problems. Of course there are lots of challenges, but the charities are really good and proactive. Once they see a problem they immediately start wondering what they can do about it, and that’s what I love most.
Also, there is a huge diversity of cultures, backgrounds, age-groups etc. It’s also a very cosmopolitan area with ample transportation and good access to other parts of London.
I head up an organization called Faith action, which is designed to equip local churches in delivering community social projects. We produce magazines, resources, training, conferencing and lots of advocacy so that Church leaders are equipped to deliver sustainable projects meeting the needs of those seeking their help. This is very important because faith plays a very crucial role in the life. People in need don't go to their local council, but rather to a church or Faith leader regarding their problems. In spite of this however, Church leaders don’t have all the tools and technical information to fully support the needs of people seeking their help so we encourage collaboration with Statutory agencies and other Sectors. William Wilberforce is my life model - the issue of his time was the slave trade and he had the tenacity to do something about it. He used his position and life for a bigger force than himself! Ultimately Jesus Christ is my biggest role model.
What would I suggest to future leaders? Ask God “what your purpose in life is? What problem you were created to solve?” - If you are not of faith, ask yourself: “What you are passionate about?” Once you’ve established that, do something about it! Above all believe in yourself.
Gosia Shannon
I am 40, Polish, and I have lived in Haringey for 17 years. It is a very multiethnic, warm, friendly borough very rich in nationalities. There are varied groups and a sense of cosmopolitanism. Most of all, I love that you can find everything here, because different people bring a wide load of things. Haringey is unique.
I work for PEEC Family Centre, where I opened a new charity for Polish and other East-European people. We help vulnerable people in need, homeless, elderly, young mums with their babies, broken families, people with alcohol problems. From my point of view this is really important because it brings communities together, it helps them grow, develop, improve.
In my life I have the following motto: “Out of inner being will flow the rivers of living water – and everywhere the river flows everything shall live”. I believe that negative things always have a counter-balance. A bit of goodness always wins the hardest hearts in the long run, and as we learn to love our neighbours as ourselves the blessings on the land will come. I also believe that it is time to love people with love that cover each others mistakes and help them to overcome their situations, by providing them with kindness and goodness.
Ricardo Mfuka
I am 52, I come from Angola and I am married with two children. They are 23 and 21, and I am really happy with them and my wife. Since I first came to the UK in 1990,I have always lived in Haringey. If you look at it, it’s a very interesting place with good culture, and people from every side of the world.
As a coach, I have my activity in Tottenham and all the people I have met have always been really nice. I am a football coach for a charity there, called Chettle Court Rangers (Youth) FC. I believe that my job is very important, as it takes the children out of the street, that also means out of trouble. Besides, they love it.
As an advice, I would remind everyone that knowledge is good, and knowledge is free. Let the children move out and learn, spread the knowledge! I think this is fundamental.
Samsam Mohamud
I am the 33-year-old mother of 4 children. The oldest is 11, the youngest just a few months old. I have a husband as well. I come from Somalia, but Haringey has been my home for 17 years now. It’s such a nice borough to live in, so multicultural and mixed. Most of all it’s amazing because everything you need is here, and for this reason you won’t miss your original home.
I am the founder and chair of North London Somali Community Association, based in Chestnut Centre. We work with Somali families and youth, especially young women. We give them activities and workshops to help them integrate in the community. To be honest, I believe it’s a very important job. When I first came here I was a teenager and I attended a sixth form school for girls. Since I didn’t know the language and there weren’t sport activities, I found it really difficult to mix with others and also I couldn’t do that well in my qualifications. Since maths doesn’t involve English I was upper-intermediate in that class, but apart from that I didn’t really achieve anything. Besides, my mum didn’t speak English either so she couldn’t ask for information about after-school clubs and other activities.
I have learnt from my experience and my aim is to help those who need help, to break the cultural barrier. I support people by providing them with the right information about communities. If I didn’t do that, I know that many young people could fall in the danger of taking drugs. I want to educate young women that soon will become mothers. My goal is to make them better parents than my parents could be. I would suggest future leaders that they don’t just say “I’m a leader, follow me”: the word is bigger than that, to be a leader you need to really try and reach as far as you can. Then, if you are a good leader, you will certainly be able to greatly support other people. There might be problems: as for my experience, I have had difficulties in fundraising, but in the end you can overcome them.
Peter Oyebobola "Praisetek"
I am over 40, I come from Nigeria and I have a beautiful wife. Haringey has been my home for 14 years now, and I really love it. As a borough it’s a wonderful, very welcoming place for almost everyone. You can easily find lots of mixed nationalities, different activities, and all the facilities are close by. Of course, the area also has some bad sides. But the community is so vibrant, you really feel at home.
My organization is called Praisetek. What we do, is to go on the street and talk to people who are involved in drugs and prostitution, we ask them why that is. We go to them to let them know that they are not alone, that there is someone to listen to them. Besides, most of the people in Praisetek have a background in the street as well, and have overcome it successfully. So now we want to encourage these people towards a better life, out of crime. For example, we talked to a lady who had been a prostitute on the same spot of Haringey for 5 years, and today she is a qualified, professional hairdresser. In fact, we try to find businesses for these people t reintegrate in society, when they come out of marihuana, cocaine etc.
We are called Praisetek as opposed to Discoteque, because one of our aims is also to introduce people to God and his love. Every last Sunday on the month, as well, we have a “lightclub”, as opposed to nightclub, when you can dance with music and so on. This is because you don’t have to be in the darkness to enjoy yourself and to have fun. Most of the times, for these people darkness would mean taking drugs, but we aim to show them that it is possible to entertain yourself without harming, or offending, the community and yourself.
As an advice to young leader I would suggest they go out and meet their communities. Some people are neglected by society and if you don’t go after them, there will be more and more in the years to come. Go on the street! Which fish are you going to catch if you’re sitting in your room? Go to the river!
My organization is called Praisetek. What we do, is to go on the street and talk to people who are involved in drugs and prostitution, we ask them why that is. We go to them to let them know that they are not alone, that there is someone to listen to them. Besides, most of the people in Praisetek have a background in the street as well, and have overcome it successfully. So now we want to encourage these people towards a better life, out of crime. For example, we talked to a lady who had been a prostitute on the same spot of Haringey for 5 years, and today she is a qualified, professional hairdresser. In fact, we try to find businesses for these people t reintegrate in society, when they come out of marihuana, cocaine etc.
We are called Praisetek as opposed to Discoteque, because one of our aims is also to introduce people to God and his love. Every last Sunday on the month, as well, we have a “lightclub”, as opposed to nightclub, when you can dance with music and so on. This is because you don’t have to be in the darkness to enjoy yourself and to have fun. Most of the times, for these people darkness would mean taking drugs, but we aim to show them that it is possible to entertain yourself without harming, or offending, the community and yourself.
As an advice to young leader I would suggest they go out and meet their communities. Some people are neglected by society and if you don’t go after them, there will be more and more in the years to come. Go on the street! Which fish are you going to catch if you’re sitting in your room? Go to the river!
Murat Yildirim
I’m 38, married, and I have two girls of 8 years and 4 months and a half respectively. I come from Turkey, but I have lived in London for 24 years now. I’ve been living in Haringey for the past 6 years, but working here for about a decade. I love the cultural diversity of the borough, where all cultures intermingle in harmony. It is a richness that I really appreciate. I would describe Haringey as one of the most colourful boroughs in London.
Here I work as project manager of an association called My Muzik: I run all the projects, which concern mainly the teaching of Turkish and Kurdish culture and musik. We don’t want to touch religious or political matters. Our focus is on the spreading of knowledge. What we do is very important, because of the crime issues in Haringey. As many other organizations here, we provide services that keep young people off the streets.
When I first arrived in London I was only 14 and couldn’t speak the language, I didn’t know lots of things, but gradually I integrated in the community and now I consider this to be my home. Therefore I feel it’s my duty to give back to the community what I got in the first place. What I would also say to future leaders is that it is fundamental that they learn properly from the current leaders, s that they can pass the knowledge on, in a positive chain.
Daisy Byaruhanga
I’m a single mum. When I moved from Uganda to Britain, 20 years ago, my first point of contact was Haringey, which I now consider to be my home. I came out of Seven Sisters station, on the Victoria Line, to look for my friend who lived off West Green Road. There I met other Ugandans and their friends from other countries: Nigeria, Congo, Ghana, sometimes Britain as well, Ireland, Turkey, the Caribbean.
We started socialising in Tottenham, where I was introduced to a Charity at Selby Centre, I started volunteering, and I later got a paid job in Haringey. I felt welcome. Above all I enjoyed the diversity and the rich cultures I got exposed to. Diversity is great here and it’s good for me to see many other black people, I don’t feel lonely then and I know I am accepted, understood. My daughter has grown up in Haringey and in her childhood and teenage years was always involved in so many activities for young people. The borough really gives the chance to share idea and problems.
In 1995 I was caring for a family member at North Middlesex Hospital and together with other residents of Haringey, who also had patients in the hospital, we formed a support group to fill the gap in care services for people living with HIV/AIDS. We later registered our Group as a Charity, called Innovative Vision Organisation. For 15 years we have continued to provide care and support services, advocacy and HIV prevention information and campaign in Haringey and the neighbouring boroughs of Enfield, Barnet, Waltham Forest, Hackney, New Ham and Towerhamlets and Redbridge. It has not been always easy but we always sorted out the problems that faced us.
My life motto is NEVER GIVE UP! I used that in my fight against AIDS, and in my funding campaigns. Even when the odds are against you, don’t quit: we will all succeed in the end! I am proud to be associated with Haringey. I have a dream to become a Politician, a Member of Parliament for Tottenham, one day.
Alison Nunes
I am Jamaican, I have 4 grown up kids and I have lived in Haringey for 33 years. If you had never been in this borough, I would tell you it’s a diverse, very mixed community, a Mecca for people coming to England for the first time particularly NE London. Above all I like the fact that you can meet people of similar cultural background as your own and relate and interact with them in socially. All of us come from elsewhere and it’s nice to interact and help each other.
I do volunteer work being chairperson for Haringey University of the Third Age. It is an organisation that caters for mature people engaging the people who are retired or semi-retired. Our motto is "Retired but not retiring"! Members consider themselves wise because of their mature years and we enjoy getting out and about to enhance wellbeing and help them remain happy! They come together to learn IT skills, join reading groups do poetry and some walk, travel and more as well.
I try to live my life by being helpful and managed to help members to record their memories and experiences in a publication, “Wisdom Speaks”: we are continuously taking from life experiences I think it’s fundamental for future leaders of communities to be involved, know what’s going on, be out there and help people in need.
Haringey is an exciting Borough to live in, food variety is plenty, well kept parks and other open spaces make it really enjoyable.
Elif Aygun
I’m 24, single, with 4 siblings. I was born in Turkey and arrived in London when I was 3 and have been living in Haringey for the past 16 years. I describe Haringey as a multicultural deprived area which needs lots of developments, for example, gangs must be prevented and for this we must work together as a community and help motivate children from getting involved in danger. Looking at Haringey from a different view it can also be a challenging place to live in and it certainly gives a good experience for those who desire to develop in life.
At the moment I’m working with ‘My Muzik’ as a project leader for the development of those who seek support. I believe the work we carry out is important because we help people particularly the young ones for a better future, as we are essential and vital to them.
As a life motto my team and I seek to develop and succeed by offering more support and for this we must obtain funding from local authorities. I would suggest future leaders to work as a team and not to be biased. I am hoping for them to commence beneficial projects for the community that will enable safety and development.
Stephen Wish
I am 57 now, born in England and moving to London when 18 year old. I've lived and worked in Haringey since 1985. Haringey is a complex and diverse borough, so for me it is an excellent place to be right now as I see my self as equally complex and diverse. I thought geography in two Haringey schools and remained delighted with the privilege of meeting children from all over the world, who shared their first hand experiences with me. If you want to meet people in a global context, where better than Haringey?
I founded my organisation, Polar Bear Community, in 2000 because I recognised there was a lack of personalised support for people experiencing serious mental health issues, as I was at the time.We help people explore and express how they are experiencing the world in what is a very confusing and chaotic moment in their life. After I was diagnosed with bi-polar affective disorder, at the age of 46, and ended my teaching career, I asked myself the questions: 'Why had I lost my voice?' 'Why was no-one hearing me?' 'Why did it feel as though I really had nowhere to turn?' Polar Bear helped me rediscover. I discovered that I believed in possibility - daily miracles that can allow almost anything to happen, if we are able to recognise them.
My advice to future leaders is to keep believing! You may not know how to do something, but that does not mean that it isn’t possible. You can do it! Come and talk with the Polar Bear if you want to discover your own possibilities, even in the most difficult of times.
Mohamed Iman
I was born in Somalia in 1966. I have lived in London, in Haringey, since 1994 and I’m married with three children, the oldest of which is 11 year old. Living in this borough sometimes I find myself really believing that I’m not far from Somalia. This shows me the multicultural value of Haringey compared to most other London boroughs, and makes me love this area and want to stay here.
I am the trustee and chair of an organisation called Somali UK Community Association Link. About two decades ago the Somali people first started to move out of Somalia because of the civil war that was ravaging the country. So most of us have now been here for quite a long time, but still, sometimes this is not enough. Besides, many people keep coming in, especially families with children. Therefore, in my organisation we feel that we need to do more for the Somali youth, to help them understand the culture of other people. We propose activities as many other pre-existing organisations, because we believe that there is always the need for more. In fact, we started in 2002, when we realised that we needed more bases that the Somali people could reach easily.
As a life motto, I would say that it is important to be brave, face challenges, have the courage to make a change. I’ve got to say to future leaders that there is a lot to do for the community to be updated and for a better social understanding to be fulfilled. It is fundamental that we spend time with the children and transmit them our knowledge, too.
Lynne Hale
I have a husband and one child. I come from Wales, but I lived in New York and then came to London, and Haringey, 16 years ago. This borough is a rich tapestry of diversity. I really love it, but sometimes it can be challenging and frustrating. It’s always very rich and interesting, though. I really like the diversity, and I actually work with it, so it suits me very well.
I am chief executive of Haringey Shed and our motto is ‘everyone has a part to play’. We provide inclusive theatre, music and movement workshops leading to professional performance experiences for children and young people. We also deliver programmes in schools. It’s important because we give the opportunity to children who’d never have the chance to experience the performing arts, and the kind of benefits that this gives: confidence, presence, team working skills and a sense of community… 30 % of our kids have a range of special needs, and since isolation could be a big problem for them, it’s really good that they can share time with mainstream youngsters and everyone benefits from this inclusive way of working.
My inspiration is the young people we work with – seeing them grow as performers and people is a very joyful experience. My life motto is “Seize the day”, embrace opportunities when they arise. I would suggest to future leaders that they find what they are really passionate about and dedicate themselves to that. It sounds obvious but it’s so important to love your work.
Andrew Reid
I am the eldest of five children. I live and work in Haringey, and living in south Tottenham since 1972 I know very well the happenings of the last 40 years in the area. Haringey is to me the most diverse place in London, where young people and adults can easily get together in a community. I am happy to say that in Haringey there are both an art centre and a theatre. What I love most about it is its diversity. It’s good to see different people, different nationalities, to seek understanding from them. I find that this breaks down barriers like racism, sexism…
I work with quite a few organizations in the borough, given that I am a diversity activist. In particular, though, my brother and I have founded the Black Art Production Theatre, or BAP Theatre, for short. My brother is the artist, while I take care of the management/services bit. I think ours is an important job because it gives young people the opportunity to get closer to theatre.
My life motto is “A winner never quits, a quitter never wins”. As far as I’m concerned, future leaders should know who they’re representing, know their community, ask them questions and listen a lot. Only then it is possible to represent it in a positive way.
Anthia
I’m 18 and I have one older brother and one older sister. I am half Greek, half Turkish, but I have always lived here, in Haringey.
I know the area has maybe a bad name and is sort of rough, but it depends on how you feel about it. You might be scared at first, yet I find it a nice place to be. I like that here they always try to do something good for the people. I assist Rahul in Haringey Youth when he teaches street Bollywood dance. Given that it’s something different, that fuses together two forms of dance, it’s something unusual that also has the positive effect of keeping fit and active.
My life motto is “fight for tomorrow”: I believe we should always keep going, never stop trying. As an advice to future leader, as well, I’d say always be positive, even when things are not going good keep your head up, because when you start thinking negative, everything will go negative!
Rahul
I am 19 and I’m originally from Bangladesh, but my two older brothers and I have lived in Haringey all our lives. I love everything about it, there is lots of entertainment and of activities for young people.
I teach street Bollywood dance at Haringey Youth. It’s important because it takes people away from drugs. In my opinion everyone should keep away from bad stuff, and rather do something they really like.
Brinda
I’m 59 and I was born in Mauritius. I have one son of 27 who is studying at university. My husband is 62, and unfortunately he has been diagnosed Alzheimer and his condition is quite severe. I have been in Haringey since 1973, working as a deputy manager for a care centre called Haringey Asian day Centre.
I like the borough because it has many different backgrounds, and you feel at home. When I first came to the UK I lived in Bristol, where I didn’t really feel at ease. But here you can meet people of so many different nationalities! I love it. Also, I love that in Haringey there are lots of people who care for the other people. As a deputy manager I do this too, and in particular I provide activities for people with special conditions. It is definitely an important work, because there is always someone needing care. Until 3 years ago I also particularly cared for my father, who then passed away. At the moment I am not working because my husband needs me.
My whole life is based on caring for people and I would advice future leaders to do that too. Most of all, I believe that carers should be more listened to, because of their experience. There should be more specific training to suit individual needs. For example, not much attention is paid for younger people with Alzheimer. At the hospital they are not really looked after. I think we should all be more attentive.
Eddie Wedderburn
I am 83 years old, with a wife, two kids, and a grandson of nearly two years. I come from the parish of Westmorland in Jamaica, but I have now lived in Haringey for 48 years!
To someone who has never been there I would describe it as a multiethnic borough that provides good services for the older people. What I love most about it, though, is the friendliness of the people in Haringey, and the respect that they show. I have worked with a huge number of organizations here: I am currently in the Haringey Race and Equality Council, but in the past I have been governor at many schools and colleges of the area; I have an experience as a treasurer; I was twice District Road Master for Muioof (North London district); I worked with the Cultural Centre and the West Indian Standing Conference; I have been the deacon of a local church for more than 20 years; a trustee; and much else. This means that I have always done something interesting with the community.
I think it has a link with my childhood, since I grew up in a similar environment. I really like to be involved in helping people in an assertive manner, and I would suggest future leaders to be conscientious, dedicated, and respectful of the others.
Nasreen Hussein
I am a widow with five children, and I arrived in Haringey 25 years ago, when I got married. I am originally from Pakistan, but I was born in Birmingham, and first went to Pakistan when I was 19.
The area is lots of fun, you can get to know so many different people if you want to! And I love having everything available on my doorstep, or a walking distance away, or a bus ride away. I feel safe in Haringey.
Here I work at HAVCO, which I really like because of the nice people there and because I love learning new things. My life motto is “Walk through the waves even if the tide is against you”: I believe we can never do enough, there is always the chance to work more and work better.
Andy Asukwo
I’m 25 and I come from Nigeria. I have lived in Haringey for 3 years and I think it’s a borough with a good environment, a happy place to live in. Most of all, I love the fact that there is good education in Haringey, and that the area is getting better and better.
In Haringey I work for Praisetek, an organization against drugs and prostitution. I would say that our work is important because the people need humanity, and that’s what we try to give them. In particular, I believe in change and that the people should fulfil their destiny, maximising their potential.
If I had to give an advice to future leaders of the area, I’d tell them the best thing is to know what you’re talking about, and to talk directly to the people you’re representing. It is essential that we represent those people that otherwise wouldn’t have the possibility to make their voice be heard.
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